Are Sleep Terrors Disturbing Your Child’s Sleep? Tips for Parents
Learn how to keep little sleep-walkers and night terror sufferers safe, and find out how to minimize triggers for these strange sleep behaviors.
You’re drifting off at 10 p.m. when your 7-year-old screams bloody murder. You race to her bedside in full rescue mode — only to find it’s a nightmare.
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But not just any nightmare. “During a sleep terror, a child may scream, talk or cry,” explains pediatric sleep disorders expert Vaishal Shah, MD, MPH. “If the light is on, you can see they’re pale or sweaty. The fight-or-flight response is fully activated.”
Sleep terrors may be over in a few seconds or may last several minutes. They have no pattern, striking once a week, a few times a year, or — in rare cases — several times a week.
You may wonder if your child will grow out of their sleep terrors? Or what’s caused your child’s sleep terrors in the first place? What’s a parent to do?
“Sleep-walkers can often navigate the familiar home environment,” says Brubaker. “But when you call them, they won’t respond or won’t remember in the morning. Or they’ll say something nonsensical because they’re not awake.”
Here are some tips for understanding and coping with the strange sleep behaviors that occur at all ages, but most often in childhood.
Sleep terrors affect two to 7% of children and usually peaks between ages four and seven. Sleep-walking affects between one and 11% of children and usually peaks between ages eight and 13.
Do these worrisome behaviors signal an underlying problem?
Not at all, says Brubaker. “Sleep terrors and sleep-walking occur in normally developing children,” she says. “They aren’t caused by anxiety or psychological issues.”
Genetics may be a factor, however. Kids are more likely to have sleep terrors or to sleep-walk if their parents did. Most children outgrow sleep terrors before their teens. Some of them may start sleep-walking. Sleep-walking can persist into the teen or adult years.
The two sleep disturbances share a similar underlying mechanism.
“As we sleep, we alternate between REM (rapid eye movement, or “dream”) sleep and non-REM (deep) sleep, spending 90 to 120 minutes in each cycle,” Dr. Shah explains.
Throughout the night, “we all wake up two to six times, look around, roll over and fall back asleep,” he says. “But kids who have night terrors or sleep-walk ‘get stuck’ between waking up and being in the deepest stage of non-REM sleep.”
These sleep behaviors tend to occur within the first half of the night, when non-REM sleep predominates.
Anything that wakes a child up from deep, non-REM sleep can trigger a sleep terror or sleep-walking episode, including:
While it’s a less significant trigger, illness — with a fever, for example — may make a child sleep more. Also less critical, a noisy environment may lead to sleep disturbances as well. “
We work with parents to identify triggers so they can try to prevent them,” says Dr. Shah. “This can reduce the number of episodes.”
It’s best to allow a sleep disturbance to run its course. Trying to awaken a child in the midst of a sleep terror or sleep-walking episode will make it last longer. And they’ll find it harder to wake up.If your child is prone to sleep terrors, surround them with soft pillows to keep them safe if they thrash around.
“Parents should interfere if the safety of the child becomes an issue,” says Brubaker. “For example, you can gently turn a sleep-walker around and guide them back to bed.”
Parents of sleep-walkers should also:
In rare cases, when episodes are very frequent, children may need medication, says Dr. Shah.
Finally, even if your child’s sleep terror or sleepy attempt to climb out a window terrifies you, try not to share your distress with your child.
“Kids don’t remember anything in the morning, so there’s no need for reproach,” says Brubaker. “Explain what happened, discuss the triggers, let things run their course, and help them be safe.”