Reading to your child builds language skills, encourages bonding and readies them for school success
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Your baby may be too young to sound out the letters of the alphabet or even grasp a book, but it’s never too soon to introduce them to the magic of reading. And adding storytime to your regular routine has a host of benefits for both you and your child.
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Pediatrician Kimberly Churbock, MD, explains why reading to little ones is so important and how it can help set them up for success as they grow.
There are no hard and fast rules about how to read to your child. What’s most important is that you do it, period. These general guidelines can help you choose the best books for your kiddo’s age and stage.
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Reading is a skill that will serve your children well in school and in life. But hearing books read aloud has benefits long before they show up for their first day of kindergarten.
“Reading to babies and young children is so important,” Dr. Churbock says. “It helps them learn to talk and gives them tools to form social and emotional skills.”
Here’s a look at a few of the top benefits.
Worried that reading is just one more thing you have to squeeze into your bleary-eyed day as a parent? This is one habit that doesn’t have to be time-consuming or complicated, Dr. Churbock says.
She shares some tips to make reading fun and effective.
Reading isn’t a one-and-done, and consistency is the key to reaping the benefits. So, try to read to your child for at least a few minutes each day, whether it’s one bedtime book session or shorter reading breaks throughout the day.
“As your child gets older, their attention span can start to handle longer stories,” Dr. Churbock notes.
Babies learn by exploring with all of their senses. So, let them discover books on their terms — even if that means they’re holding it upside-down or drooling all over it.
“They’ll eventually learn how to hold a book upright or move the pages in the right direction,” Dr. Churbock says. “But in the beginning, it’s all about enjoying that time and space together and seeing what your child finds interesting.”
If your kid wants to turn back to look at the first page over and over again, just roll with it. Let them point out the pictures they like on the page or talk about what they see, even if it means you don’t get around to finishing the story.
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“For kids, reading doesn’t have to look the same as it does for adults,” Dr. Churbock clarifies. “When they’re young, it’s just about books becoming a positive part of their life.”
You’re not locked into reading the words on the page. Engage with your little listener by pointing out pictures, asking questions or speculating about why those dogs are wearing hats and driving cars.
“Make animal noises, try out silly voices, let them feel the different textures or lift the flaps,” Dr. Churbock recommends. “All of it counts as reading with little ones.”
Once your child starts crawling and toddling, it can be challenging to get them to sit still. But even if they’re scooting around the room, they’ll still benefit from hearing you read aloud.
“It’s OK if they don’t sit quietly in your lap for story time,” Dr. Churbock says.
Nervous to take your child to the library for group storytime because of their inability to focus? Give it a shot. Librarians are used to kids not paying attention, and they know how to deal with the chaos.
Kids love to read the same books over and over (and over). That might test your patience, but the repetition serves a purpose.
“You might find that your child starts to recognize some of the rhyming words in their favorite books that are in heavy rotation,” Dr. Churbock says. “That’s a sign that they’re learning some of those important speech and language skills.”
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So, go ahead and read about that hungry caterpillar for the millionth time this week. But to break up the monotony, you might try to strike a deal: At bedtime, you’ll read one book your kiddo chooses and a new one that you pick.
School-aged kids still benefit from reading with their parents, especially as they’re trying to learn to read on their own. Dr. Churbock offers these tips:
Before you know it, your babies will be big kids who can read to themselves — and you might even find that you miss that caterpillar with the endless appetite.
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