February 21, 2017

Fibroids: Are They Making Sex Painful for You?

Treatments can help, besides a hysterectomy

Fibroids: Are They Making Sex Painful for You?

If you are a woman reading this, the odds are that you have or have had uterine fibroids but didn’t even know it. These benign growths of muscle and connective tissue of the uterus are a common occurrence, affecting 60-80 percent of women. Also, they generally do not cause any symptoms.


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There are times, however, that their presence causes problems, including painful sex.

Why uterine fibroids are unique

Depending upon where they form, their size and number, they can cause a variety of symptoms. Discomfort during intercourse is one possible symptom, while heavy or irregular menstrual bleeding and muscle cramping resulting from fibroids also can interfere with your sex life.

Difficulty urinating, constipation, anemia and craving for ice are other potential signs. Fibroids also can make a woman look pregnant and give a feeling of a mass in her abdomen. At their worst, they can cause infertility, miscarriage or premature delivery.

Imagining why uterine fibroids can become troublesome (and why treatment can vary) is easier when you consider this: Your uterus is about the size of a lemon, while a fibroid can become the size of an apple, grapefruit, cantaloupe — or even a watermelon.

Also, each fibroid is unique. Its features are as individual as your thumbprint or a snowflake.


To determine treatment options for fibroids, it’s important to have imaging of the uterus performed with either transvaginal ultrasound or even an MRI of the pelvis. Understanding the specific characteristics of your fibroid(s) is critical to understanding the best treatment options.

Preserving your fertility

Painful sex can be tied to a variety of issues so it’s important to discuss with your doctor.

If you are diagnosed with fibroids, know that a hysterectomy isn’t always necessary. Besides considering the size, number, and location of the fibroids, treatment also depends on whether a woman is trying to preserve her fertility.

It’s true that for some women, a hysterectomy is absolutely the best and sometimes only choice. However, if you want children or desire uterine preservation, talk to your doctor. Don’t hesitate to seek a second opinion appointment if you are uncomfortable with the recommendation you receive. There are many less invasive treatment modalities available.

Treatment options beyond hysterectomy

If most of your symptoms involve heavy bleeding and cramps, treatment options may include:

  • Hormonal contraception
  • Mirena® (levonorgestrel) intrauterine device
  • Lysteda® (tranexamic acid)
  • Depo-Lupron®
  • Depo-Provera®
  • Nonsteroidal agents

For broader symptoms, including pelvic pressure, pain, bladder and bowel symptoms, treatment options may include:

  • Uterine fibroid (artery) embolization
  • Myomectomy (removal of fibroids only and preservation of the uterus)
  • MRI-focused ultrasound ablation
  • Radiofrequency and ultrasound ablation of fibroids

If you have fibroids or suspect fibroids, talk to your doctor. There are many treatments available, and a hysterectomy may or may not be your best option.

From the book Us! Our life. Our Health. Our Legacy. by Linda Bradley, MD and Margaret McKenzie, MD

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