How to Deal With Quarantine Life So Every Day Doesn’t Feel the Same

Solutions for when the days all blur together
Planning your time

Time flies when you’re having fun. It slows to a crawl when you’re waiting for a mind-numbing meeting to end. And when you’re social distancing at home during a global pandemic, time becomes meaningless.

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At least, that’s how a lot of people are feeling these days. One day oozes into the next. (Wait, is it Wednesday or Saturday? 2020 or 2025?) Some days drag on endlessly; others seem to be over in the blink of an eye.

If you’ve lost the ability to track how many days have passed since you’ve changed your yoga pants, you’re not alone.

“Your brain is used to operating one way. Now everything is flipped, and the whole world is disrupted,” says social worker and holistic therapist Maura Lipinski, LISW-S. But you can restore your internal clock. “It doesn’t have to be ‘Groundhog Day’ every day,” she says.

Twisted time perception

Our internal sense of time is more complicated than you might think. Emotions, memories, events, even whether you’re hungry or tired can affect how you perceive the passage of minutes, hours and days. So it’s no surprise that an event like a global health crisis might mess with your brain’s sense of time.

In fact, so many people have reported an altered sense of time that researchers have begun studying it. A team of scientists from around the world is leading a project to examine how physical distancing is affecting our relationship with time. Though the findings aren’t out yet, it helps to know that the phenomenon isn’t all in your head.

How to add structure to your daily life

Losing track of time can be disconcerting, and it contributes to feelings of restlessness and irritation. These suggestions can bring some structure back to your days:

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1. Be proactive

“There’s something beneficial about deciding that Tuesday doesn’t have to look like Thursday,” Lipinski says. You don’t have to create an elaborate agenda. But scheduling regularly occurring events — Tuesday laundry day, Friday movie night, Sunday morning waffles — can help anchor your days.

2. Use a calendar

If you had a doctor’s appointment, you’d do your best to show up on time. Try to treat your life like a series of can’t-miss appointments. Besides the must-do stuff like work deadlines and reminders to order groceries, schedule fun things, too.

Write down appointments for important self-care activities like exercise, checking in with friends and going to bed at a reasonable hour. “Set your schedule and hold to it,” Lipinski says.

3. Set goals

If you’re losing track of your aimless days, try setting concrete goals for the day (go for a walk, call your mom) or the week (clean your closet, schedule a telehealth appointment).

It also helps to think about long-term goals. Where do you want to be in one year or five? “It’s hard because we don’t know what to expect, but it can help to have a direction for the future,” notes Lipinski.

4. Go easy on yourself

The sun is setting, and you’re still in your pajamas? That’s okay. We’re all struggling to adapt to circumstances that are anything but normal, and beating yourself up won’t do you any good.

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“We’re overwhelmed right now, and it’s easy to get caught up in negative ideas like ‘What have I accomplished?’” says Lipinski. “If you notice a negative thought come up, try to change your perspective. We need some of that hopefulness during this time.”

5. Control what you can

Having a routine gives us a sense of control over our lives. That’s especially important when so much feels beyond our control.

To fight back against the emptiness of endless days at home, try to focus on the things you can control, even if it’s just cooking a healthy meal and going to bed at a reasonable hour. “Take control over what you can, and honor the fact that you accomplished those things,” Lipinski suggests.

Eventually, this crisis will end, and time will continue on its steady march. Who knows? You might even look back fondly at the memory of all that free time (or at least all the time you got to spend in yoga pants).

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