Weight Loss: How to Reset Your Brain For Success

How a dieting mindset keeps the weight on
Weight Loss: How to Reset Your Brain For Success

We’ve all been there — after a month of being “good” on your New Years’ diet, you attend a party for the big game that’s bursting with treats. Suddenly corn chips and chili dip are calling your name, and you can’t concentrate on the game because you’re spending all your mental energy avoiding the chips. When you finally give in, you feel guilt, shame and lowered self-esteem.

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Combine these feelings with the idea that since you’ve blown your diet, you might as well eat more before you go back to being “good” tomorrow, and you have weight gain.

“Several things happen in our bodies when we restrict our food intake,” says dietitian Anna Taylor, MS, RD, LD. “We know that our metabolism slows, and the hormones that regulate our feelings of hunger and fullness get out of whack. You end up overeating, not because you are bad or weak, but because your body is doing everything it can to get out of your self-imposed famine.”

Several studies have shown that restrictive dieting ultimately leads to weight gain, not weight loss. But studies have also shown that self-esteem can predict dieting outcomes.

“When you work on reducing your guilt and shame around food and better body image acceptance, you tend to develop better eating habits over the long term,” says bariatric behavioral health expert Leslie Heinberg, PhD.

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Your mind’s on a diet, but your stomach isn’t

Even when you are not actively on a diet plan, your dieting mindset can cause you to eat more and gain weight. You may eat more than you normally would, anticipating that soon you will be back on a restrictive diet.

“From an evolutionary perspective, our bodies are more tuned to survive in times of famine,” Ms. Taylor says. “The body of the yo-yo dieter is accustomed to having random times of food shortage or restriction; therefore, the body strives to eat and store more overall. The human body does not like to lose weight, so it fights back.”

A dieting mindset also tells you that your food decisions reflect on your worth as a person. You are eating “bad” foods, so you are a bad or weak or unworthy person. This can perpetuate a cycle of emotional eating that adds excess weight, reduces self-esteem and is tough to end.

What to do

  1. Don’t tell yourself that those corn chips are “bad.” Focus on how a food makes your body feel, not on whether it fits in with the current diet fad. “Healthy foods give us more energy and tend to make us feel better,” Ms. Taylor says. “Even something like ice cream can fit into this framework. You know if you order a triple scoop you’re going to feel sluggish afterwards, so you stick to a junior scoop and enjoy every bite. Over time, that leads to better health.”
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  3. Don’t subtract from your eating — add to it. “Restriction has the opposite effect we want it to have, so if we focus on adding foods that make us feel good —vegetables and fruits that help digestion, whole grains and proteins that keep us fuller, longer — then we are not so obsessed with what we are not eating,” Dr. Heinberg says. “Restriction also leads us to feel overly hungry later and lose self-control. Don’t restrict as a way of making up for less than ideal eating. It will just set the stage for a future binge.”
  4. Work on your negative self-talk. “When we tie our self-worth so directly to our food choices and combine that with a restrictive diet, we’re setting ourselves up to fail and feel guilty, which in turn produces overeating behaviors and then more guilt,”  Dr. Heinberg says. Write down positive changes that you are making each day (such as drinking more water or taking a walk) in a journal, and stop using the words “good” and “bad” to describe your food choices — and yourself.

Ultimately, what works for weight loss in the long-term is small, incremental changes to your overall eating patterns. The less you focus on restricting and categorizing foods and the more you focus on creating healthy behaviors around food and exercise, the healthier your body — and mind — will be.

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